How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

That's it for today.

Why didn't people like the Game of Thrones ending?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

"An ADC for ADC Purists": League Of Legends Unveils Newest Champion, Yunara - TheGamer

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Short story writers, what is your favorite character you've created and do they appear in more than one of your works?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Supernus Pharmaceuticals to Acquire Sage Therapeutics, Strengthening its Neuropsychiatry Product Portfolio - Sage Therapeutics

What I need from you?

Making more friends is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

It seems that I am cursed with bad luck. How do I break such a curse?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can a Trump supporter explain what was wrong with what Bishop Budde said to Donald Trump?

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why should we share our wife with others?

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

5 Simple Walking Tricks That Burn Fat and Build Muscle, According to a Trainer - Eat This Not That

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Why do atheists love to preach against Abrahamic religions and mock God? Even if they do not fear the eternal fire of hell, pious Muslims will certainly not leave them alone and will take brutal revenge until they surrender and repent of their sins.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.